I wish I had more pleasant news, but since my whole freaking life is on the internet anyway, I figure why not share!
After a three year run, Mrs. JimOnLight.com and I have decided to head our own separate ways. Things work out sometimes, and other times they do not work out. This happened to be one of the latter times. Leia has been the sole force behind all of the backend for JimOnLight.com since its birth. She's a web developer and code ninja, and I highly recommend her for work in her field.
As a wise man once said – "some days you eat the bar, and some days the bar eats you."
No, wait. That was in The Big Lebowski. No wonder I suck at marriage. Now I just have to get my belongings.
And now, back to your regularly scheduled postage.
So sorry to hear this for both of your sakes. I hope it all works out for the best for the two of you in the end. Sending my good vibes your way.